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Jay Irby, Director
jay.irby@oscn.net
(405) 533-6878
Facsimile: (405) 372-3230
NORTH PROGRAM ADDRESS:
Payne County Courthouse
606 South Husband, 1st Floor
Stillwater, OK 74074
PROGRAM SPONSOR:
Payne County Clerk
COUNTIES SERVED:
Kay, Lincoln, Logan, Noble, Pawnee, & Payne
Our mission is to provide quality mediation services to Northern Oklahoma in an efficient and timely manner. Our program utilizes a team of dedicated, passionate, well trained volunteers to help those in conflict in our community.
Attorneys Click HERE for Scheduling
North Program News and Updates!
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Award Presentation! North Program Director, Jay Irby, received the Early Settlement Directors’ Association Past-President Award from the New Association President, Sarah Head, at the November monthly Directors’ meeting in Oklahoma City.
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If you are interested in becoming a volunteer with Early Settlement, please complete the Volunteer Interest Form on this webpage and forward it to our attention.
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Volunteer Forms
- Volunteer Mediator Information
Request for information on becoming a volunteer mediator - Vendor Form
Intake Forms
Mediation Forms
- Consent to Mediate
Must be signed by parties before mediation begins - Record of Termination
Used for internal statistic tracking - Fillable Record of Termination
- Rule 10: Confidentiality and Rules of Conduct Acknowledgement
Must be signed by all participants before mediation begins - Basic Agreement
- Family Memorandum
Mediation Information
- ADR System Brochure
- Rules for Family Mediation
Rules for Participants - Mediation Information
Mediation information for Participants